Title: Embracing Respect and Avoiding Jealousy in Professional and Personal Life

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Embracing Respect and Avoiding Jealousy in Professional and Personal Life


By: Uzma Ishaque Content creator , Author of Motivational, Self-Help, Self-Reliance, Leadership, Psychology, and Human Factors MBA in Healthcare Management, Respiratory Therapist





In every facet of life, especially in our professional journeys, the values of respect, humility, and genuine admiration are paramount. Islam, a religion emphasizing compassion and unity, encourages us to celebrate the successes of others and refrain from envy. The idea of "rashk" in Arabic serves as a reminder of how jealousy can cloud our relationships, while respect strengthens them.


1. Honoring Success as a Reflection of Faith


In Islam, Allah is recognized as the source of all blessings and honor. When He bestows honor or success on someone, it serves as a testament to His favor upon them. The Qur'an reminds us of this divine honor, stating:


"Say, 'O Allah, Owner of Sovereignty, You give sovereignty to whom You will and You take sovereignty away from whom You will. You honor whom You will, and You humble whom You will. In Your hand is [all] good. Indeed, You are over all things competent.'"

(Qur'an, 3:26)

This verse urges us to understand that honor, wealth, or status are given by Allah and should be respected as such. Rather than becoming envious or dismissive of someone’s achievements, we are encouraged to respect them and recognize these blessings as Allah’s will.


2. Respect Over Jealousy (Rashk): Choosing Positivity


"Rashk," or jealousy, is a natural feeling but, left unchecked, can be corrosive. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) warned against harboring jealousy, as it can harm one’s spiritual and emotional well-being. He said:


 "Beware of jealousy, for verily it destroys good deeds the way fire destroys wood."

(Sunan Abu Dawood, 4903)


Respecting someone’s accomplishments, instead of envying them, is a virtuous choice. By celebrating another’s success, we open doors to positive relationships, mutual growth, and a sense of community.


3. Appreciating the Unique Paths Allah Designs


Each individual has a unique path set by Allah. Respecting these unique paths fosters empathy and appreciation for others, and it strengthens bonds in both personal and professional settings. In business or any career, respecting colleagues or competitors can lead to fruitful collaborations and a healthier work environment. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said:


"None of you [truly] believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself."

(Sahih Bukhari, 13)

This hadith underscores the beauty of supporting others in their endeavors, recognizing that their success in no way diminishes our own potential or worth.


4. How Respect Enhances Our Own Success


When we honor others, we invite positive energy and build a reputable character that people appreciate and trust. This leads to greater respect and stronger bonds, creating opportunities we may not have anticipated. Professional environments thrive on mutual respect, which translates to teamwork, loyalty, and a culture of growth.


5. Practicing Gratitude and Patience


Lastly, our perspective on others' success can be shaped by practicing gratitude and patience. Contentment with our blessings and patience during challenging times can help us focus on our own growth rather than others' gains. This can be beautifully summarized in the verse:


 "And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient."

(Qur'an, 2:155)


In conclusion, as Allah grants honor to others, our role is to acknowledge it gracefully. Respecting those whom Allah has blessed demonstrates a strength of character that fosters positive relationships and a sense of unity. By embracing respect over jealousy, we align ourselves with values that bring peace and fulfillment in our own lives.

This approach allows us to channel our energy towards building a harmonious society where each person's success is celebrated as a blessing.


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